What do you think the difference is between the 5% of consistent winners in this game and the 95% that don’t make it? There is no right or wrong answer to this question but it might help part of the 95%
What if I’d let in the middle whether I am part of that 95% or the 5% …
The other day I attended an IG conference. Actually without exception I saw everybody eager to obtain the Professional status, those people
a. not even knowing that this would influence their protection;
b. they hunted for one thing only : better margin.
Were “you” coincidentally there ? then please don’t blame me for having an opposite opinion. 😉
I have talked to many people in person, and did not find a single one who even the slightest could agree with my opinions on trading. Not sure what this tells about myself, but it tells at least that I am “different” (still not telling in which 95-5 camp I am).
I noticed that while sitting days, weeks, months next to my son, I
a. could show him dozens of times per day how to do it (FWIW – ehh);
b. I told him how to do it as many times or much more …
… he still does not have the same hang of it as I am. But how come ?
I don’t trade with indicators so I also can not tell him how to use those and be technically and rigid and … how to end up in the 95 camp definitely.
(still not telling where I am)
In the end it translates for a larger deal to what this topic is about (or at least how it started out) : it is a way of living, it is going with the (price) flow, it it reading charts of which I often have many versions (TF) on-screen.
One example of this again :
My son, he is the very best at zooming. I can tell him 25 times per day for months in a row that he will lose his reference by doing that, but he keeps on doing it.
It is obvious : I don’t. But worse : I look at the charts for by now so many years and for 12 hours+ per day, that indeed it is so that I know how to “read” them blindly.
Somehow this can’t be taught, as it seems.
Trading is an obsession. I know this for myself. A sneak-peak may tell you that I could be in the 5-camp because of that. I rather lose money than be bored. But that too has its limits, so it is a skill to know when to stop trading (and fight the obsession).
By all means, also by losing means, I appreciate my doings as experiences for the future. Each day with larger losses, I take with me as a “won’t happen again”.
You will make mistakes, you know.
Take that as positive for the next time.
It could be a wise thing to not use your winnings as something you are allowed to lose again just as well. Why ? well, because you might need the money for worse times. Just investing what you win, may not be related to worse times at all while you still may easily lose it. Don’t start betting with it.